@maffister's post on Artfol

sad thing i get reminded a lot is that no one cares about me (everyone makes jokes about it) ;

one time i disappeared for 2 weeks (didnt have any phone and stuff) and when i came back i got 0 messages from my friends and no one noticed i wasnt there.
i post a lot of stories on insta, i talk to my friends a lot....

TWO WHOLE ASS WEEKS. when i asked them, they didn't even knew i was GONE
anything couldve happened to me. πŸ˜ƒ

im that unimportant πŸ€ͺπŸ’…
Jan 14, 2022
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im so sorry maff :(
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Maff that's horrible, im sorry any of that happened
You're important
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first, probably they aren't true friends or don't take you seriously (and both are bad )
and second, what's your Instagram? I'll be the one texting you if you disappear again 🧑
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D: Maffy
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Importance isn’t measured solely on the value others see in you, but the value you see in yourself. All I ask is are you trying to be important? Or are others defining that for you? No one but yourself can tell you what ur worth, and believe me, there is meaning inside you, even if it’s not clear yet. We tend to exaggerate our downfalls and forget that the most perfect person will never exist, and value is not defined on perfection or usefulness, just on how you define yourself.
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one of my coworkers lived with me at the time bc she got family problems and we made a bet, she said that I'd get at least two messages asking where i was and if i was okay. i said no one would even notice

she didnt say it out loud but when i got all my stuff back she got kinda sad that no one gave a shit πŸ˜ƒ
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