@coffie_cat's post on Artfol
Am i right in being mad that my gf is dtaying in the server that harassed me for their (wrong) assumptions about what i believe based on my religion..?
I just want her to leave cuz i dont like the fact shes associated with people who let me get bullied and then harassed me for my religion...
She says its fine cuz she wont talk to those people but the server owner is 1 of those people. Actually the server owner is thr main person.
She also says she wants to stay cuz it helps her and it "happened to me not her" .....
Am i wrong for being upset about this....
Cuz im rlly fucking pissed about it n her being in there is bringing up trust issues in me towards her...
And i feel like she doesnt care and has no empathy towards what happened....
I just want her to leave the server... am i a horrible person for being upset she wont...?May 28, 2022
I just want her to leave cuz i dont like the fact shes associated with people who let me get bullied and then harassed me for my religion...
She says its fine cuz she wont talk to those people but the server owner is 1 of those people. Actually the server owner is thr main person.
She also says she wants to stay cuz it helps her and it "happened to me not her" .....
Am i wrong for being upset about this....
Cuz im rlly fucking pissed about it n her being in there is bringing up trust issues in me towards her...
And i feel like she doesnt care and has no empathy towards what happened....
I just want her to leave the server... am i a horrible person for being upset she wont...?May 28, 2022
Comments
It sounds like a conversation to have and Express with her. Maybe calmly, but open communication about everything. Then from there I guess it up to the both of you on what is the best steps.
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•I would be pissed- you have a right to be mad! If my I was in your gf shoes and heard about it I would have ditched the people without hesitation! What they did to you is NOT okay and shouldn’t be treated like it was Nothing.
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