@spasmodicmuse's post on Artfol

when someone asks "how are you?", what's your default answer?

"still alive" is mine. unless it's older adults in my family asking, cuz i feel they'll get the wrong idea πŸ˜‚
Jul 21, 2021
#question
#curious
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β€œOkay” I’m not going to tell random people that I had a panic attack an hour ago and that I ate gluten and am in pain
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Mmh
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β€œI’m good” is what I go to
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Usually just "fine"
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I answer simply but honestly.

"Good, I'm excited for x"

"A little tired, I didn't sleep well last night"

"I've been better, but I'm trying my best today"

I never understood the point of lying when someone asks "how are you". Obviously you don't have to give them every detail of your life, but why lie?
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β€œI’m good, how about you?”
I’m not usually good but I don’t want people to worry about me
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I just go β€œgood” because I don’t wanna get into my life problems with people I barely know ngl
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I default to. Alrighty and you? Lol idk why even when I’m not doing good
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I usually go with...
I am fine tnx, just "insert some school related rant" how about you?
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Dead
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mine is "as usual" lol
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My default answer is: "I'm doing pretty good for the most part, how are you?". This can segway into more detail if the person is interested XD I'm usually pretty honest with how I feel unless I think I'm about to cry or something. Then I'll just say I'm good and move on LOL
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Kinda the same thing but I do it to me Mum cause she knows how I be. Complete strangers I just say I be chilling or I’m fine. Close friends I usually reply with β€œ well, it all started when I was born cue monologue
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