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They/SheVent post . I don't have reddit so if you do read this let me know.if I'm the adshole
partner been living with me since the beginning ofastl month and it is AWFUL nothing due to what he's done but HIS.YOUNGER SISTERS KEEP SHOWONG UP UNANNOUNCED. this is the 3rd time
The 2nd.i let it go because he told me two weeks in advance and i forgot.
Context I live In a one bedroom and bathroom where the bathroom is in the one room. With three cats and now a partner.
It is my day off and I've been running errands all day not to mention I was going to clean the apartment when I got home.just to find two girls IN MY.PLACE
I told.him IN ADVANCE this shouldn't be made a habit I like my fucking space and I understand they all have jard.libes hit he has 4 YOUNGER SISTERS
Sure not all four has showed up at once but you get my point
And I'm not even completely mad about them staying over
... SPEMDING YHE NIGHT THOUG? THE FUCKING HAVE TO WALK INTO MY PERSONAL SPACW JUST TO PEE
Amd before anyone adds "talk to your partner about ot" I did the 2nd time it happened wtf. I just want a heads up someone coming over I have anxiety disorder that sometimes manifests into depression the place is not filthy but irs NOT THE BEST.
I am not go8ng to kick him out of course but once he's sustained he can get Tf. Someone called me an ass for this .
am I the asshole?Aug 19, 2023
partner been living with me since the beginning ofastl month and it is AWFUL nothing due to what he's done but HIS.YOUNGER SISTERS KEEP SHOWONG UP UNANNOUNCED. this is the 3rd time
The 2nd.i let it go because he told me two weeks in advance and i forgot.
Context I live In a one bedroom and bathroom where the bathroom is in the one room. With three cats and now a partner.
It is my day off and I've been running errands all day not to mention I was going to clean the apartment when I got home.just to find two girls IN MY.PLACE
I told.him IN ADVANCE this shouldn't be made a habit I like my fucking space and I understand they all have jard.libes hit he has 4 YOUNGER SISTERS
Sure not all four has showed up at once but you get my point
And I'm not even completely mad about them staying over
... SPEMDING YHE NIGHT THOUG? THE FUCKING HAVE TO WALK INTO MY PERSONAL SPACW JUST TO PEE
Amd before anyone adds "talk to your partner about ot" I did the 2nd time it happened wtf. I just want a heads up someone coming over I have anxiety disorder that sometimes manifests into depression the place is not filthy but irs NOT THE BEST.
I am not go8ng to kick him out of course but once he's sustained he can get Tf. Someone called me an ass for this .
am I the asshole?Aug 19, 2023
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I don't think you are. Setting boundaries for how often family members and friends can come over is important and if your partner doesn't respect that it's not your fault. Especially since they come UNANNOUNCED and without asking you, AND sleeping over too - that's not okay
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•It's hard to not have a room/quiet space just for you in a one bedroom but at the same time being his partner, his family is your family. He deserves to hang out with them. They come first to him as seen by his reaction. But I can understand the feeling. it's annoying not having space for yourself and dealing with people unannounced. If the lifestyle isnt working out and it's a hell no from you, you have a right to date someone else. its not bad, you just dont have time to settle for things you know you dont want. he may need a more social person who can get along with his sisters/lifestyle better. Do whats best for you.
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