@paka_nga_yawa's post on Artfol

Sometimes people call me a "she" in Convo and I get so confused like

"Who's she there's only me and two other guys wh- oh,,, right I use all pronouns"
BECAUSE ALTHOUGH IM AFAB??? BARELY ANYONE USES SHE/HER WHENEVER I TALK WITH THEM IN CONVO LMAO-

Everytime someone refers to me they always use my username🤣🤣 which was Semi and Esti quite a long time ago😭😭 and also because I've been so used to being mistaken as a guy and my friends using he/they pronouns when referring to me I completely forgot.

It's just weird 😭 also calling myself a "she" is weird now. Not in a bad way tho? It doesn't make me uncomfy but I just feel so alienated(?) From that term if that makes sense? Also it doesn't help that my language has gender neutral pronouns, makes it easier to forget that I'm a "she" because how could they when Siya, and tana is gender neutral??
Oct 16, 2021
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