@mattdenlav's post on Artfol
phone artistหหห dont u also love passing through parentification and living with constant fear and anxious for the adult u have to care when you're under 18 
so exciting i love being a teenagerMay 18, 2021
so exciting i love being a teenagerMay 18, 2021Comments
Omg I totally relate to this, especially bc my parents are divorced, my mom would just dump us onto other relatives and Iโm like โwow 
I feel so loved rnโ and then I would still have to care for my siblings or someone elseโs kids like HUH?! I didnโt realize how much it affected me until now and Iโm still extremely young. She is pretty negligent and itโs not always bc she wants to be but itโs just naturally how she is
I feel so loved rnโ and then I would still have to care for my siblings or someone elseโs kids like HUH?! I didnโt realize how much it affected me until now and Iโm still extremely young. She is pretty negligent and itโs not always bc she wants to be but itโs just naturally how she isโข
โขMe knowing that I'll be kicked out if i won't be able to move before 18 
haha...yea..
haha...yea..โข
โขim so sorry you have to go through that :<<< it's so stressful and confusing and it's wrong!! so wrong. you shouldnt have to take that kind of responsibility. and it's hard and it's hard to talk to people about it and like... what you can do about it even??? i was in similar situation when i was a literal child and i still feel like shit about it lol haha fun.. but!!! it gets better when you get out there 
(and leaving the place behind can feel bad too but it helps... there is just the problem that leaving is so difficult in many other ways too aaaa. why is everything so hard)
i hope you get to some better place soon?? or that you find people who can help you :<< at least talking about it here is safe
i send all my support to you
(and leaving the place behind can feel bad too but it helps... there is just the problem that leaving is so difficult in many other ways too aaaa. why is everything so hard)i hope you get to some better place soon?? or that you find people who can help you :<< at least talking about it here is safe
i send all my support to you
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โขi love my mom to death and i would never blame her for what i have to pass through or talk bad about her, but her moving away to live with her partner and leaving me with my grandparents is 100% to me take care of them. again, i can't blame her since i love her to death and se already suffered too much with them (they were really toxic parents) so,, i kinda understand that she wants to live the burden with me? Since they are very chill now compared to when she was young
but
the whole thing of not being close to her, only talking to her through text, and being completely responsible for them is extremely exhausting. I don't tell her none of this because it will just sound that im being a annoying bitch. Also if something happens with them, like...die, y'know, i would be the blamed one...because i didn't take care enough, i was the villain of the story
when i am just confused and stressed. I can't even take care of myself yet how am I supposed to do all of this,,? Besides that their family doesn't even give a shit to them. Me and my mom are practically the only one who does something to help. But I'm sure they gonna be the first one to point fingers at me
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the whole thing of not being close to her, only talking to her through text, and being completely responsible for them is extremely exhausting. I don't tell her none of this because it will just sound that im being a annoying bitch. Also if something happens with them, like...die, y'know, i would be the blamed one...because i didn't take care enough, i was the villain of the story
when i am just confused and stressed. I can't even take care of myself yet how am I supposed to do all of this,,? Besides that their family doesn't even give a shit to them. Me and my mom are practically the only one who does something to help. But I'm sure they gonna be the first one to point fingers at me
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โขDamn I have so many friends who can relate to this :/ I'm sorry you have to deal with that. You're really strong though so know you're doing good ^^ also side note: omg wait I'm older than you-
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