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Ara ara! Sonna dakara minna ni kirawareru n desuyo!Jeez...I promised myself I'd stop crying around others....I just had a mental breakdown (like a really bad one, cried for about an hour and a half on her shoulder) and I feel bad for my friend since she's always listening to my problems but never seems to tell me about hers...is it wrong to do this...? I want to help her too but she doesn't want to talk to me, I respect her decision of course but I feel guilty now, I just...I don't know what to do, I know that if this keeps up she's going to go off the edge at some point..Jun 1, 2022
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It's okay to express that you're not okay, and as a friend on both sides of this, if someone didn't tell me how they're doing I'd feel really bad. But I also understand that if a friend is going through a hard time, then it can also be damaging to them to let out my sorrows to them even if they think they can handle it. They also may just not be ready to talk, or feel comfortable doing so. Opening up is a really hard thing to do, and if done in the wrong way, via too quickly or before comfort and without guilt, it may hurt them to open up. I'm sorry your going through a lot, and I hope things look better for you soon. Give your friend some time though, and give yourself some time as well. Remember to stop to smell the flowers, and don't forget to breathe. If you think your friend is having a rough time, and they don't wanna open up, then give them some good vibes. Pick them flowers so they can remember to smell the flowers to, and help them breathe and smsmile. We're all going through hard times, but I'm sending you guys good vibes and I hope tomorrow it's easier for you to be :)) I love you
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•I honestly know how it is on the opposite side and i dont like it but thats mostly because im not fit to be a therapy friend, you can ask them to open up as well and if they get upset maybe help them too? Im not rly sure what to do because again im dealing with this too but more on the other person's side but i still dunno 
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•.. i understand that feeling. And i think that it’s perfectly fine ti cry whenever. She will come to you when needed. Best thing to do for now is listen to the little things
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