@reedshrine's post on Artfol
What is more important to you?
Being needed or needing someone. I don't mean what you personality prefer I mean what is giving/feeling you more.
For myself I don't act cause I need someone or want someone I need. But when I see ppl do need me I will stay and try to be there. So my motivation here is more being needed. But I was wondering if there are also ppl that need someone more than being needed xD
I feel like it's making no sense what I'm writing but that's my thoughts xD your welcome to put down your own on thisNov 27, 2023
Being needed or needing someone. I don't mean what you personality prefer I mean what is giving/feeling you more.
For myself I don't act cause I need someone or want someone I need. But when I see ppl do need me I will stay and try to be there. So my motivation here is more being needed. But I was wondering if there are also ppl that need someone more than being needed xD
I feel like it's making no sense what I'm writing but that's my thoughts xD your welcome to put down your own on thisNov 27, 2023
#question
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I´m a pretty simple person when it comes to wants. Not much needed to make me content.
So I´d say I lean more towards feeling needed.
So I´d say I lean more towards feeling needed.
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I would say needing sb, bc I tbh don’t feel like there is a single person who needs me, like most of the people ik do not really care about me since they don’t know anything personal of me, I‘m pretty sure they don’t even care a lil bit, when I just move to another country and be just gone soooo lol stupid example, I kinda need you atm bc I have a lot motivation to make it trough each week since we‘re playing mc every weekend and I know than that I’m always having a good distraction from problems and some company haha xp
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I'm so needed in so many ways that it's refreshing to find someone or something that I need or long for and want to spend my time and energies on.
Having a lot to give is fulfilling and gives life meaning but following that road can also be an infinite way to drain my energies if I'm not careful.
People always want more, more, more.
What do I want?
Having a lot to give is fulfilling and gives life meaning but following that road can also be an infinite way to drain my energies if I'm not careful.
People always want more, more, more.
What do I want?
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•It's been a while sinse the last philoaophical question! It's either you or Bem who makes me go "Huh..."
The answer didn't come quick, but landed on being needed. Had to think if it was because it's the one I was most used to or not. Idk how to put it, because I don't mean it all negative, but needing someone makes me feel volnurable. And it's ok to be that, and to see one is not alone, but it's not a driving factor if that makes sense. Think being needed it's the one that feels most fulfilling for me, but also the one that has made me burn out haha! But one learn from that too, so it's still the most giving:) Idk if that ramble made sense xD
The answer didn't come quick, but landed on being needed. Had to think if it was because it's the one I was most used to or not. Idk how to put it, because I don't mean it all negative, but needing someone makes me feel volnurable. And it's ok to be that, and to see one is not alone, but it's not a driving factor if that makes sense. Think being needed it's the one that feels most fulfilling for me, but also the one that has made me burn out haha! But one learn from that too, so it's still the most giving:) Idk if that ramble made sense xD
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If people need me they’re being emotionally clingy because there’s nothing I’m doing for them aside from occasional conversations
I don’t need anyone unless they’re helping me with my medical needs >_>
If people need me they’re being emotionally clingy because there’s nothing I’m doing for them aside from occasional conversations
I don’t need anyone unless they’re helping me with my medical needs >_>
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