You are important Just over a month ago, I lost one of the most important people in my life to suicide.
I've been able to think about little else since, dwelling on thoughts and reasons that are ultimately useless, planning what to do each day to honor their memory, desperately seeking answers from someone who is no longer here.
It's confusing to encounter a situation like this, because if it were death itself, there's an answer: life. But something like this leaves a void in your hands, a feeling of not having been able to do anything to prevent it. It generates a sense of helplessness, knowing that it's not possible anyway.
So here I am, ever since, thinking about what I can do about it. I've never felt so sensitive; I connect with these situations that don't happen every day, and it's a real shame to have to keep going. But thanks to what happened, I know that path is not an option.
So if you've ever considered suicide or are carrying a deep wound, please share it, talk to someone. You are important, and it's essential that you keep trying, because when we learn and heal our wounds, we can feel our mind free. You may have a better present in the world, or be living a beautiful phase, but if you don't take the time to confront the ghosts that have haunted you since some traumatic event, they will continue to return and don't miss out on all the wonderful things around you. The world isn't just that ghost; there are many people who love you and need you because you are important, and I hope you can see all those beautiful qualities that make you a good person. And if you can't find that support within your circle, there are many people out there willing to offer their unconditional help. Many worthwhile things await you, and you deserve the opportunity to discover them, so please, don't give up yet. May 13, 2026
I've been able to think about little else since, dwelling on thoughts and reasons that are ultimately useless, planning what to do each day to honor their memory, desperately seeking answers from someone who is no longer here.
It's confusing to encounter a situation like this, because if it were death itself, there's an answer: life. But something like this leaves a void in your hands, a feeling of not having been able to do anything to prevent it. It generates a sense of helplessness, knowing that it's not possible anyway.
So here I am, ever since, thinking about what I can do about it. I've never felt so sensitive; I connect with these situations that don't happen every day, and it's a real shame to have to keep going. But thanks to what happened, I know that path is not an option.
So if you've ever considered suicide or are carrying a deep wound, please share it, talk to someone. You are important, and it's essential that you keep trying, because when we learn and heal our wounds, we can feel our mind free. You may have a better present in the world, or be living a beautiful phase, but if you don't take the time to confront the ghosts that have haunted you since some traumatic event, they will continue to return and don't miss out on all the wonderful things around you. The world isn't just that ghost; there are many people who love you and need you because you are important, and I hope you can see all those beautiful qualities that make you a good person. And if you can't find that support within your circle, there are many people out there willing to offer their unconditional help. Many worthwhile things await you, and you deserve the opportunity to discover them, so please, don't give up yet. May 13, 2026
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I don't think I can form the right words since they probably do not exist, but I want to say how strong you are to keep going after everything life throws at you and the people around you and to be able to spread a message of love after such an event
Of course if you ever need anything or just to talk you can always hit me up as I've seen other wonderful people offer, and remember to take care of yourself too. I'm sure this person has had a wonderful impact on many people including you and I hope they can be remembered. I know I'll carry the small piece you showed of them in my heart
Of course if you ever need anything or just to talk you can always hit me up as I've seen other wonderful people offer, and remember to take care of yourself too. I'm sure this person has had a wonderful impact on many people including you and I hope they can be remembered. I know I'll carry the small piece you showed of them in my heart
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I hope you've been able to take the time to care for yourself -- and I'm so sorry that you've lost someone in that way :( If you ever need to talk, I've always got my inbox open. Both your art and your words are so so beautiful -- I think it'll reach the people that need to see and hear something like what you've made.
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I'm so sorry for your loss Luca, it must be difficult for you. If you need to talk to someone I'm there, although we did not talk as much as before I of course would not mind at all. Know that it was not your fault at all and I hope you'll push through in those difficult times.
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Im very sorry for your loss, I know that is probably one of the worst feelings. I've never had any of my friends or family lost to suicide but that is a constant worry of mine. Please try not to blame it on yourself and i hope the pain is managed as time goes on, and please try not to push yourself too hard during these times of grief, you deserve breaks to process this type of stuff. I hope for the best. <3
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over a year ago i lost my cousin to suicide. they were on some stuff so they weren’t really in their right mind, but uhh, idk. everyone was angry at them, but i didnt and still don’t know how to feel. it hurts to think about that they were going through shit that was just so…invisible(?). uhm. yeah. please, please, please people, let sunshine in.
great piece, thank you for making this. :))
great piece, thank you for making this. :))
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•I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you had to experience this. I can't pretend to understand exactly what you're going through, but I hope it gets better with time.
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