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Question of the day/night šŸ’œāœØ

✨when do you think is the right time to start dating or thinking about dating? Or looking to find that significant other? Not aggressively looking but being open for one.✨

I would say around 25 is a good age to start officially dating and committing to a relationship but with experience. Like having those crush type relationships or maybe having a close friend type deal? So you know what you want in a relationship. You have to know what’s good and what’s toxic as well. From my experience I’ve had been in ā€œrelationshipsā€ but I don’t count those since I was young and didn’t think much of it. I did like the person but I never grasps the whole idea of how serious a relationship could be. Also currently if I’m dating someone it’s to see if I would spend the rest of my life with them (marriage ā€˜3’) but enough of that stuff cause I’m just an overworked loner student who barely has time to get sunlight let alone get to know anyone to form a bond with them šŸ—æ
Apr 11, 2022
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I agree with the is different from each individual, since I feel like some can start at a young age and hopefully would have a nice puppy love, but the commitment is better between your college years, I am not saying that you should be irresponsable if you are teenager and be mean to your partner, but I wont expect a child to be as mature as a young adult
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I think its probably different for everyone? Like whenever you would feel ready would be the right time. I have friends who were ready at 14, I have one friend who was ready at 16. I still don't feel totally ready at 17. I think most people start wanting to date as a teenager cause not all dating has to be, you know, dating for marriage.
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Probably around 15 or 16 (but just more casual relationships) and serious ones at around 20-25
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I don't really think there is a "right" time. For some people it just happens when it happens, and for others it never happens at all. I only met my partner because we were set up by mutual friends, and now we've been together for nearly seven years. We were introduced a month after I graduated high school. Of course we still had (and have) some growing up to do, but my partner and I tackle stuff as a team. You won't always finds someone who wants to put in that effort though. Especially not when you're both fresh out of high school. I guess no matter what age you are, watch out for that. Make sure you're both putting in equal effort to grow as people and work better with each other.
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Personally never. Biased because aro. I don’t even know what a date is supposed to be.
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My parents said when I’m able to support a family. But I ain’t getting married or having kids and all that stuff
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