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Guys, I need help. I just poured my heart out to a guy that I know from my college days earlier today. I told him that I liked him, and he feels the same way about me. Although, we live quite a ways apart, so I don't know if anything will actually come it. But, he's liked me since college, and I think I've liked him since then too. So, I don't know what to do now...Dec 9, 2022
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Alright, a bit of opinion from outside, but take it with a grain of salt since I'm still single myself Lmao 
Anyway, I advice you take things slow, take your time to know each other, so are you two dating or still deciding?
Anyway, I was taught that, when you are partnered with someone, there are 4 things that should work for a happy living with that person, these being
- Contention: It's about support, like, you feel sad, bad, here is my shoulder and a hug. Want to start something? Let's Work in this together, or meyby we could try this instead
- Communication: It's important to communicate your partner your feelings, as well as he should, a healthy relationship comes with a healthy communication, and always remain calm when arguing things, and be open about stuff
- Same Life route: so in a way... If I want to go north, and you want to go south... How is this gonna work? So in a way, it's important to have the same "path" to follow
- And... Well... "Intimacy": I think that speaks for itself, but I cannot stress enough about how important is to NOT rush this, take your time Lad/Lass to know each other!
Well, to close this up, hope things work for you, take your time to know each other, mainly to know if you two are meant for each other, to avoid any unpleasant rupture, it's best to know how things will be as friends, and if it doesn't work, each one goes their way as friends.
Anyway, I advice you take things slow, take your time to know each other, so are you two dating or still deciding?
Anyway, I was taught that, when you are partnered with someone, there are 4 things that should work for a happy living with that person, these being
- Contention: It's about support, like, you feel sad, bad, here is my shoulder and a hug. Want to start something? Let's Work in this together, or meyby we could try this instead
- Communication: It's important to communicate your partner your feelings, as well as he should, a healthy relationship comes with a healthy communication, and always remain calm when arguing things, and be open about stuff
- Same Life route: so in a way... If I want to go north, and you want to go south... How is this gonna work? So in a way, it's important to have the same "path" to follow
- And... Well... "Intimacy": I think that speaks for itself, but I cannot stress enough about how important is to NOT rush this, take your time Lad/Lass to know each other!
Well, to close this up, hope things work for you, take your time to know each other, mainly to know if you two are meant for each other, to avoid any unpleasant rupture, it's best to know how things will be as friends, and if it doesn't work, each one goes their way as friends.
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