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Suggestive content, DNI UNDER 16I’m so confused about myself. I honest to god can’t tell if I’m genderfluid or not anymore. Like a while back I was feeling extremely unhappy with my birth gender and felt like a the opposite sex/non-binary. But as of recently I feel different, I mean I still don’t really like it but not as much as before. I feel a bit better with my birth gender. I don’t know, maybe I’m not genderfluid and my mind is messing with me. It’s hard to explain.Feb 27, 2021
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Aa ya thats hard, I was in the same position a while back actually!
I found out I was pretty okay with my birth gender, not super happy, but thats bc of how people treat; esp because im gnc, wlw and super awkward compared to other girls. Made me feel less like one until I started college and saw more people like me >>;; still hate being called a girl tho
Whatever choice you make though, remember that the goal isnt what seems right, its whatever seems freeing to you and lets you focus on your other goals. Nobody fully knows who they are, its okay to keep things like your sexuality and gender vague to others for your comfort and safety. If things change, they change! Nothing ever needs to be set in stone, you always have the decision to change aspects of your life and who you are.
I found out I was pretty okay with my birth gender, not super happy, but thats bc of how people treat; esp because im gnc, wlw and super awkward compared to other girls. Made me feel less like one until I started college and saw more people like me >>;; still hate being called a girl tho
Whatever choice you make though, remember that the goal isnt what seems right, its whatever seems freeing to you and lets you focus on your other goals. Nobody fully knows who they are, its okay to keep things like your sexuality and gender vague to others for your comfort and safety. If things change, they change! Nothing ever needs to be set in stone, you always have the decision to change aspects of your life and who you are.
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Ah saaame I'm questioning my gender and my sexuality (help). But I think it'll resolve itself later on. Like when you get older or when you discover more things that you like... And stuff like that. I hope you feel better soon! 
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Sorry to hear you are going through a hard gender time! 
If it helps you at all I try to remind myself that whatever makes me feel the best and comfortable as me is the right answer even if it is for the day and you dont always have to put labels on yourself after you just took some off.
Hope this helps and take care! Being kind to yourself is important in times of change.
If it helps you at all I try to remind myself that whatever makes me feel the best and comfortable as me is the right answer even if it is for the day and you dont always have to put labels on yourself after you just took some off.
Hope this helps and take care! Being kind to yourself is important in times of change.
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