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I might be… I might be Aro too (?)
Why is this so difficult to figure out for me, boi. How do people knoooooow. I mean, looking back at my dating history… it makes so much sense. But sometimes, I don’t know.
Sometimes I think I’m bi, but maybe what I feel it’s just platonic. Or maybe it’s because what Hollywood taught us as love is bullshit! Who knows? Not me!!Oct 31, 2021
Why is this so difficult to figure out for me, boi. How do people knoooooow. I mean, looking back at my dating history… it makes so much sense. But sometimes, I don’t know.
Sometimes I think I’m bi, but maybe what I feel it’s just platonic. Or maybe it’s because what Hollywood taught us as love is bullshit! Who knows? Not me!!Oct 31, 2021
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I suggest u to look at Anthony pedilla's interview of aromantic people. There's one person being married but still being aromantic and others that just explain their view on how they see love and romance ect and I am like "yeah that makes sense it fits my aromantic oc"
It took a bit for me to figure myself out and I just know now that I am Bi and demi. So I just start showing romantic feelings AFTER I have a more in depth friendship or relationship with someone. I have these "walls" the person needs to " pass " so they can reach a certain comfort level for me to express romance or attraction to them. And I hate speed dating or finding love quickly xD I'd rather stay by myself instead.
A I have the same problem
Beside I've got no dating experience and I know that I'm 100% ace
It's like so confusing to know for sure
What if it's not it and everyone else feels like that and I'm just too isolated to know AAA
Beside I've got no dating experience and I know that I'm 100% ace
It's like so confusing to know for sure
What if it's not it and everyone else feels like that and I'm just too isolated to know AAA
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ive had the same problem a while ago fjahdjs but i just gave up on it and now i just go with the flow,,, i feel like theres a constant preassure to label yourself as something? but sometimes its nice to just be, and u can choose a label once ur sure ur comfortable with it :D
labels CAN be helpful but theyre not really necessary,,,
labels CAN be helpful but theyre not really necessary,,,
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I suggest u to look at Anthony pedilla's interview of aromantic people. There's one person being married but still being aromantic and others that just explain their view on how they see love and romance ect and I am like "yeah that makes sense it fits my aromantic oc" It took a bit for me to figure myself out and I just know now that I am Bi and demi. So I just start showing romantic feelings AFTER I have a more in depth friendship or relationship with someone. I have these "walls" the person needs to " pass " so they can reach a certain comfort level for me to express romance or attraction to them. And I hate speed dating or finding love quickly xD I'd rather stay by myself instead.
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what even are romantic feelings? do I like u cause ur aesthetically pleasing? bc ur actually attractive to me? bc u were nice to me once a year ago? I think I’ll just get a cat
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•oh i was just thinking about how messed up image we have about love and relationships (mostly because of media??? and our weird and stupid society)
like?? platonic relationships can be as meaningful and full of love as the romantic ones
and it's okay to be confused and not know there is so many ways to experience such things?? but media usually makes it look very simple and say how it should be,,
it can be so hard tho and im v sorry
it's okay not to know everything, you have time to find out!! (tho i can only imagine how nice it would be to have these things figured out asdhjk if it is even possible? im not sure)
like?? platonic relationships can be as meaningful and full of love as the romantic ones
and it's okay to be confused and not know there is so many ways to experience such things?? but media usually makes it look very simple and say how it should be,,it can be so hard tho and im v sorry
it's okay not to know everything, you have time to find out!! (tho i can only imagine how nice it would be to have these things figured out asdhjk if it is even possible? im not sure)•
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like how are you even suppose to figure it out
That was me before I realized I was Pansexual Aroflux, which leaves me having romantic feelings that fluctuates way too much
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